On Friday, I attended a memorial service for my friend, Carolyn, who passed away March 18th. On June 7th, she would have celebrated her 41st birthday! Yes, you are reading correctly. While I don't know the full circumstance of her passing, another friend made mention that she had been experiencing back pain, but the true cause was of her pain was intestinal problems, which may or may not have caused her untimely death. Additionally, he stated that a simple blood test could have revealed what was going on. My friend made the comment, 'I need to get myself checked! I've not been to the doctor in forever!' That raised my eyebrows so, and I immediately went into 'mama-J' mode as my mom says. I became so concerned for him and even lashed out at him because it doesn't make sense for him to not seek medical check ups-at minimal, annually! He has two excellent jobs with fantastic medical benefits, so that is not an issue.
This friend I was speaking with isn't the first conversation I've had about not seeing a doctor in 'forever'! It makes no sense to me. I don't understand why we're not taking better care of ourselves and ultimately wait until it's too late.
I'm sure many will know the last time the oil was checked in their car, but will not be able to remember the last medical check up they had.
I have another friend who is of age where he should be getting his prostrate checked. His machismo attitude could lead him down a path of prostrate cancer because he doesn't want a doctor performing 'that type of check up'. Another friend has neglected his teeth for years and has been spending many appointments getting his teeth cleaned, fillings filled, and all kinds of horrible painful things done. Why? Because he hasn't been to a dentist! I have lady friend who mentioned she's not had a well-woman check up in years even when she had medical benefits. Now she doesn't, but she could easily go to a women's clinic (planned parenthood) and pay on a sliding scale for a visit.
Living a healthy life isn't only about breathing and having fun with family and friends. It's about loving your self enough to take care of it and get it checked out...at least once per year.
I bet you took your car for an oil change.
Its so important to get regular checks. I feel it's even more important as African Americans. The statistics seem to always be against us. I changed my lifestyle so I dont have to be a statistic
ReplyDeletevery true, jeanette. thank you for reading and posting on my blog. check out the archive. i posted about 'seeing my people' which comments on african american's being present at the many walk events i do. take care.
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